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Thursday, August 21, 2008

Result release....

I have been waiting today for so long... Finally the result release.. Haha..
So, around 1.10pm like this Wilson come to my house and we wait for Annie to come and pick us.. Wilson lazy to drive so Annie come pick us up loh.. Haha..
Then we go college and look for our result.. Haha... I get 2 A- and 3 B+ ..
Not really good but im happy for my result le... I will work harder next time to get a better result..
Hope can lah.. Haha... Thank you very much for all the people especially "YOU".. The one who oweyz courage me and support me on dat time..
YOU will alwayz be in my heart, FOREVER.. There is nothing much to say now but only THANK YOU.. ^^
All the best and congratulate to all my frens... =)
Muackzzzzz... Haha...

Thursday, August 14, 2008

珍惜!!

人往往都是在失去之后才懂得后悔为何当初没有珍惜,也因为这样很埋怨自己。弄得自己烦恼多多,何不一开始就去珍惜该珍惜的。。。至少不会在失去了之后才后悔当初没珍惜到。。。

I like it..

1. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:平時嘲笑你沒胸沒屁股,指著洋美眉說:瞧瞧人家,那纔叫長得夠味。等你真的很認真的對他說:很多人都去隆胸,你也想去的時候。他會很生氣地說:別傻,現在這樣多好啊。

2. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:吃飯的時候,把最好的都擺在你面前,看你狼吞虎咽的吃,先是很欣慰的笑笑,然後再生氣的說:慢點慢點,沒人跟你搶。然後再很生氣的說:你太自私了,什麼都是挑最好的先吃。再最後,還是把最好的都夾到你碗裡。

3. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:無論你做什麼東西,他都說好吃。偶爾說一次:這個太咸了。盡管如此還是都吃掉了。直到有一次家裡來客人,你做了一大桌的東西,客人說:你是不是平時很少做飯啊?你終於明白:其實你做的東西並不好吃。

4. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:每次都跟你說,我們上館子吃吧,自己做太累。你說:太貴,用這個錢可以買大蝦自己做著吃。他會很高興的說:還是我老婆最賢惠。

5. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:你每次去接他,從來都是遲到,他很生氣,說你不重視他,纔會遲到。把你先罵一頓,然後再打開包包,滿包包全是給你買的東西。

6. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:催你早點睡,早點起。你跟他說:早上早點叫我起來。早上你卻偏偏要賴床,他叫了幾次你都不起,最後起來晚了,你還要怪他沒好好叫你。他很無辜,說:我看你睡得那麼香,不忍心叫你。

7. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:總是把別的女人鄙一頓,張三太丑,李四太笨,王五太傻。。。只有我老婆最好,其實他這麼做只是為了哄你開心而已。她們並沒有他所鄙視的那麼糟。這是等你真正懂事的時候纔明白的道理。

8. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:你一遇到困難,就想到他,並且總能從他那找到解決困難的答案。當你沒困難的時候就總也想不到他,他卻不怪你。

9. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:給你錢花,你卻說他把你寵壞了,失去了艱苦奮斗的決心。不給你錢花,為了讓你樹立艱苦奮斗的決心的時候,你卻說他對你不夠好,自己吃山珍海味,卻讓她受苦。

10. 心疼你的男人是這樣的:心裡惦記著你,想來看你,你卻說你很忙。為你著想,不來看你的時候,你又說他拋下你一個人不管,自己去逍遙。

11.心疼你的男人是這樣的:真的真的很愛你,可你卻從來都覺得是應該的。直到有一天,當你看看周圍的世界的時候。在不停嘆息世界的黑暗,世人的可憐的時候,女人的不幸,男人的不仁的時候,纔突然發現自己原來是如此的幸福,一直生活在真空中,沒有看見世界的疾苦和黑暗。


逐漸學會長大,逐漸收斂狂野,逐漸放棄叛逆,逐漸回顧自己,纔發現為何你是如此幸運,卻從來沒有覺察到。

對真正愛你的男人,你拿什麼來償還。沒有了,這輩子都無法償還清。真的,你開始慢慢懂得這是上輩子的德和下輩子的債。

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

How To Set Up A Romantic Dinner

You always wanted to do something romantic for your partner but didn’t know how. Having a quiet dinner just the two of you can recreate romance again. Even if you had a disagreement, setting up a romantic dinner will only win you kudos.

1) Decide where you would like to have dinner, outside in the garden under the bright moonlight or on the terrace/verandah. Or you could arrange it in your dinning room.
2) Select an elegant table linen, with napkins good china and cutlery.
3) You can make or purchase a small flower arrangement to suit the color of your table linen. Don’t choose a large arrangement because it will be in the way of your conversation. You face could get hidden behind the flowers.
4) Set your table neatly. If you do not know how to place the cutlery refer to any book on table settings or websites.
5) Include candles on your table for the optimum romance. Try using several votive candles or tea lights rather than two tall taper candles. They will keep your view of your partner open and create a romantic glow.
6) Use attractive serving dishes and platters and keep the pots and pans in the kitchen. Even if you decide to order food from your favorite restaurant, don’t serve food in plastic boxes or cartons. Keep them in serving platters and keep them warm.
7) Welcome your partner by seating him or her and placing the napkin in his or her lap. Make it feel like a romantic restaurant that is opened just for the two of you.

10 Signs That Show You Are In A Healthy Relationship

1) You feel excited around your partner.
2) You can confide anything to your partner.
3) It feels okay to say sorry when you in the wrong.
4) Your partner is your best friend.
5) You can be yourself without any pretense of being judged with your partner.
6) You feel blessed to find such a wonderful person in your life.
7) You don’t need to express your feeling about how you feel about him/her because he/she can see it in your eyes.
8) You feel life is really wonderful and you now know how to live it well.
9) You are ready to face anything in life because you have someone to watch your back.
10) When he/she completes you.

8 Signs of A Troubled Relationship

1) Go with your instincts: You may have shared a good chemistry with your boyfriend but lately find that love and attraction is fading away. Discuss it with him; find out what is not going right. It is best to identify and clarify expectations.
2) Indifference can act as slow poison to your relationship. If you don’t find your guy interested in you anymore, making excuses to go out or watches television instead of a romantic meal at home, then your radar should be blinking.
3) When your partner makes excuses to be intimate and ignores your flirtatious behavior, it is clear that he is not interested in this relationship.
4) Abusive relationship should not be tolerated. Walk out the instant he raises his hands toward you. A man, who doesn’t respect you, definitely doesn’t deserve you.
5) When frequent simple arguments become full blown fights for no apparent reason, note that he is finding a way out of this relationship. He will blame you as being hot headed with an attitude problem when he decides to walk out.
6) The man who used to surprise you with sweet phone calls or stopped by after work suddenly decides to put you on mute mode. Then you know that something is wrong. Being busy at work is understandable but avoiding calls or catching up on weekends is surely his way of brushing you off.
7) Some partners are very controlling. They always want things their way and if it isn’t then they sulk or show a strong dislike. If everything has to revolve around what he or she wants then you are stuck with a very self–centered partner. Think again, if you will be happy with such a person.
8 ) The age old way of getting rid of a partner is by constantly finding faults and criticizing them. Never let such people get to you or break your self confidence. Reason with them but if it still doesn’t work, it is time you move on to a person who appreciates the way you are.

5 Tips To Fire Up Your Romance And Score High On The Love-Meter

Relationships are like tender plants. Ignore them, they will wilt, if you water them too much, they will die. If you don’t watch over them carefully, they get surrounded with weeds. But giving the plants your love, nurture and care in sufficient amounts gives you healthy, blooming flowers.
Here are some tips to spark up your romance once again:
1) Simple Gestures: Sometimes a warm cuddle, a soft touch on the cheek makes a whole lot of difference. You can take a walk holding hands or put your arms around her shoulders and watch a movie together. These simple gestures melt her heart.
2) Happy Smiles: A smile can change any mood. Even if you have had an argument, your cheerful smile will force her to smile in return and then all is forgiven.
3) Right Words: Saying the right words makes an impact. You could be flirting with her and she would enjoy it because you have timed your words right with the occasion.
4) Stop Comparing: The grass is always greener on the other side. If you have decided which side of the grass you want, then learn to appreciate what you have. Constant comparison will only hurt her feelings. Taking the relationship for granted is another turn off so go out of your way to show how much you value her in your life.
5) Good Old Times: Reminiscing the first time you met and the first time you went on a date, brings a lot of fond memories back. You will remember the old feelings of love and tenderness together. This acts as a catalyst for a great relationship for the future.

Doing the things that you both enjoy, going to the places you like and eating your favorite cuisine brings back the compatibility. So make time for the one you cherish because sometimes life doesn’t always give you a second chance.

How To Manage A Blind Date?

Do your friends have a way of setting you up on a blind date? Well, I am sure they mean well. But they only reveal that he is a looker or she is a gorgeous bombshell? Don’t be alarmed. Here are few tips to keep you calm and talking smoothly through the whole evening.

1) Keep an open mind. Don’t form a mental image or have high expectations based on your friends enthusiasm.
2) Avoid spending too much time explaining about yourself.
3) Show a softer side of your personality.
4) Be a good listener.
5) Show an interest in his/her career by asking some simple questions.
6) Avoid nodding your head too much. Instead make eye contact.
7) Keep the conversation light.
8) Avoid revealing your innermost secrets to a total stranger.
9) Avoid laughing boisterously even if his/her jokes are truly funny.
10) If you are really shy, then role play with a friend to boost your confidence.

Learn To Get Over Your Ex

Your Ex is your past. Stop dwelling over him/her and learn to live in the present. It may not be easy for all but there is always some support and pointers which will help you see things clearer.

1) It is really over. So don’t hang around him/her. Don’t jump to answer his/her email, phone calls or even visiting the places where you once spent time together.

2) There is nothing left to talk and discuss when the final separation has happened. Don’t beg or cry or make blank phone calls. Even at desperate moments, if you can talk your way back into his/her arms, it is only a temporary reprieve. She/He already knows you want her back and he/she doesn’t care. Take that as a sign.

3) Streamline your thought and emotions. Focus on the heart and negative, weepy feelings on paper. Express yourself completely and then destroy the letter. Don’t send it to your Ex. You may never know that your Ex may actually find it funny seeing your pathetic state and discuss it with other friends.

4) Find new places to hangout. Don’t meet your Ex’s friends. If your friends still want to keep in touch with your Ex, then it is best that you avoid them atleast for a while. A true friend will understand what you are going through and leave the friendship of your Ex. In these trying times, you will know exactly how true and genuine friends around you are.

5) Throw away; discard the gifts and souvenirs that your ex had given you. Keeping them around will only make things worse.

With time you will slowly understand and then the healing will begin. Life doesn’t remain the same for everyone so good times will roll in again. Just don’t lose hope.

How Can A Relationship Grow And Mature As A Lifelong Commitment?

How Can A Relationship Grow And Mature As A Lifelong Commitment?

We all dream to have the perfectly nurtured and loving relationship. But many of us can actually honestly say that they are truly self-sufficient in their love. A good relationship is not one that just lasts but one that coexists with self respect, individuality and the need to grow. An individual in a relationship shouldn’t be a repository of one’s own need and desires; in fact both the people involved should be totally committed to their relationship. They must be ready to take responsibility for themselves as well as the relationship. Many eminent marriage counselors and psychologists suggest on the need for individual space in a relationship.

So how can a relationship grow and mature as a lifelong commitment?

  • Learn to love yourself more. Give yourself credit and develop a strong self-esteem. Avoid convincing your partner how deeply you love him/her. This will relax your love defenses and enable you to give yourself totally to the relationship.
  • Have faith in your partner and do not question his love and affection.
  • Stay away from conflicts and drop the ego which governs the “I” factor.
  • Avoid using the relationship to reach your goals and aspirations.
  • Allow your partner to develop and be an individual. Don’t bind him with too many do’s and don’ts of the relationship.
  • When there is a conflict, take a step back and rationalize your position. Don’t always go pointing fingers.
  • Listen to one another.
  • Communication is crucial in any relationship. So keep the lines open and friendly.
  • Grow and let grow.

Love

Very often when we meet someone, he or she belongs to someone else. It's funny how we set qualifications for the right person to love, while at the back of our minds we know that the person we truly love will always be an exception. There would come a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person started hating us or something, but because we found out that they'd be happier if we let them go. You will know when you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy even if their happiness means you are not a part of it. If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you but for some reasons he or she couldn't stay, don't cry too much... just be glad that your paths crossed and somehow he or she made you happy for a while. There are some things that we never want to let go of... people we never want to leave behind; but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, but rather, it is the beginning of a new life. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want him or her to, doesn't mean he or she doesn't love you will all he or she has. Remember that the best relationship is when your love for each other is greater than your need for each other. "I dropped a tear in the ocean... and the day I find it would be the day I'll stop loving you." Do you have someone to say that to? You'll know that you miss someone very much when every time you think of that person, your heart breaks into a million pieces and just a quick "Hello" from that person can bring the broken pieces back together. When you love someone, draw a circle around their name instead of a heart because hearts can be broken but circles never end. Just a thought: what would you do if the only person who could make you stop crying is the person who makes you cry?. "Every step I took since the moment I could walk was a step toward finding you." You don't want to let go; but it's even more painful to ask someone to stay if you can never make the relationship work out the way it should be. LOVE? It's kind of complicated, but I'll tell you this. The second you're willing to make yourself miserable to make someone else happy, that's love. If I had the letters "HRT", I can add "EA" to get "HEART" or a "U" and get "HURT". But I'd rather choose "U" and get "HURT" than have a "HEART" without "U". Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that he or she will love you back. Don't expect love in return, wait for it to grow in his or her heart. If it doesn't, be contented it grew in yours. It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to fall in love with someone. But it takes a lifetime to really forget someone you have grown to love.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

bOreD~ (29/07/08)

What a Boring Day tOday.. Haha...
Me, Wilson, and Derrick gO Annie's hOuse kacao kacao... Haha.. =p
Then after that we go to eat KFC at 7th mile** hehe~ Then after eating, we send Annie home and we go back home too.. Tonite around 9.50pm we go Jalan Song 报道。。哈哈。。
很闷啊,读书又累,放假又闷。不知道要做设么好~古晋节要开了,要换地方报道了。哈哈!
dON'T KNOW the rESulT will Out lOh.. Scared, woRRieD, and ExciTed.. Haha..
Ermmm... I think thats all what i wana say.. gOodbye..

Monday, July 28, 2008

Tired!!

Well... Today me and Wilson bring japanese people go Arang and Tapang school..
The Japanese people seems like a film star that surround by many people.. Haha... The students take photo with the Japanese people.. ^^ Some of them are kawaiii leh.. Haha..
After visiting the school, me and Wilson bring Risa and Keiko go India street to buy some souvenir and then we go The Spring.. We go there eat ice-cream, french fries and small chicken meat.. Haha, fun but tired.. -.-"
Ermm.. Sorry if my Eng is not that gOod so hope u people know what am i talking about.. ^^
Tonight wana go for the dinner with YE too.. Hope to know more about them.. And know more about their country culture.. Thanks for viewing my blog.. :-)
Hehe... Thats all what i want to say.. Will write more again.. *Bb*

Friday, July 25, 2008

This Is My First Time....in Blogger!!!!!

From the title...
you all know tat this is my First Entry!!!!
So i have nothing to say...
but learn to create a blog...
Hahahahahaha...